Imagine That! Your Sexual Fantasies
You're walking along the beach in Canaries. It begins to drizzle. You notice a resplendent, suggestive, brunette woman wearing a short white dress, walking alone at the shore. The breeze gently guides you in her direction and the rain, which has turned stable and warm, washes you
toward her. You notice that her dress is rather wet, show the outline of her excited nipples, her waist, her hips, her things. As you approach her, she scrutinizes you, and you notice her eyes, so bright and alluring. Without a word, you sank into them. Your lips touch hers, and your hands caress all her body, excite all your senses. You raise her supple body into the air, then lay her gently down on the sand at the edge of the water. As the tide glides over, you slip deep inside her body, becoming one with her. You're making sex. Rolling with the waves you come and come and—whoops, looks like I got lost myself in fantasy for a moment there! Her sexual fantasies transmit into our minds. Fantasies are great thing, because you can call on them whenever you need to. You can call up a sexual fantasy to increase sexually passion when you're masturbating, or when you're having sex with your partner. But sometimes a sexual fantasy may prevent to your mind when you least expect it (for example, when you are trying to make a report on your job!). A fantasy is no more than a capricious desire, a picture or story you keep in your mind.
As every person you can have different fantasies anywhere and anytime. Fantasies can be relaxing, exciting, or arousing.
There are a lot of people who get intense sexual pleasure simply by using their imaginations. Also some people use such fantasies in order to add excitement to their sex lives. Fantasizing about anything at all is quite normal. Choosing to act out your fantasies is based on using good judgment to determine if what's in your head will be as great if it becomes a reality.
As a rule you have sexual fantasies all day long, but they appear in that moment when you don’t wait him, and when it is necessary, all sexual fantasies are far from your mind.
Top 10 Sexual Fantasies
1. Threesomes or Group Sex
Just imagine such situation: there are one mouth on your mouth, one mouth on your privy parts, and one mouth on your nipple, while six hands touch your body at the same time. There certainly is a lot to imagine if you think about a threesome, also called or group sex. Maybe you've done it before, and the unrest of remembering that time really turns you on. Maybe you hope to try it someday, and the thoughts of what you'll do imbue your intellect. (You may look through the Chapter 20 if you want to know more about threesomes and group sex.) If you don't think you could handle the emotional intricacies of group sex in real life, the fantasy could still thrill you. And perhaps best of all, group sex fantasies are the only way you can fit a dozen people in your double bed.
2. Sex with a Famous Person
Perhaps one day you'll meet Michael Jackson or Elton John, and you'll become crazy with idea to have passionate sex with them. But probably not, so in the mean time, if you fantasize about Michael or Elton, then at least you can have either one anytime you want. Unfortunately such fantasy about sex with someone powerful may push off you from other ordinary persons. Other times, it's just the fact that we all divide a common pool of sexy celebrities, whose images we can easily toss into our fantasies. To dream about celebrities is very funny, just represent that Sylvester Stallone making love to you in a hot bath. Unless all of these dreams about the rich and famous will never come true. And that's a good thing—otherwise, poor Carmen Electra, she would have a lot of problems with genitals.
3. Sex with a Friend or Someone You Have a Crush On
Every morning when you walk near her desk at work, her perfume’s smell initiate your endless torrent of dreams. You don't think you should ask her out, because you work together. Of course it is normally to have her image in your fantasies every night. Despite the fact that you know each other for almost a year, you prefer to say that you are “just friends”. Sometimes it's still fun to put this person in your fantasies when you masturbate. The only problem is sometime when you're together, he catches you looking at him funny, when you are remembering the position that you imagined him in the night before! It is so spread among people to fantasize about the other human in our lives. If you have a chance to see them and think about them all the time anyway, so why not add them to your fantasies?
4. Sex with a Stranger
You're standing on the underground during rush hour and a man who pressed tightly against you is a tall, red-haired stranger. You feel your bodies swinging at the same time with the motion of the train. Suddenly that stranger starts to move off. Oh no, you're not standing at the same stop! Once on the other side of the closing glass doors, your object of desire looks back at you with trusting eyes, and smiles. But you're not sad that you missed encounter with each other, and you aren’t upset, because you know that you can find each other anytime in your fantasies. Whether it's the sexy stranger you spotted on the underground, the waiter at the cafe when you're out with your spouse, the timid woman who lives in the next apartment, or simply a person you conjure up in your imagination. The fantasy about sex with a stranger allows you to have the quiver of anonymous sex, without the risks.
5. Sex with Someone of the Same Gender
Look at this: your bosom rubbing against her bosom, or may be your penis is situated in your left hand, and his penis is situated in your right hand. Do you think it sounds crazy?
It doesn’t matter who you are: gay, straight, or in between, fantasizing about somebody of the same gender is normal. It can be fun to dream about sex that you may never have. When you fantasize about someone of the same sex, you can suffer new ideas and new emotions. Remember, if you're straight, your fantasies do not make you gay. And if you are gay, your fantasies about someone of the opposite gender don’t make you straight.
6. Force Fantasies, Being Tied Up, and Being Spanked.
Would you ever think about situation when someone you know to rip your shirt off, grasp you by the hair, throw you down on the floor and have wild sex with you? Most people have no desire to be coercive into sex, or to compel someone to have sex in real life; however, violent fantasies are extremely common. But there are some fantasies that should never be waked up in our mind. (Unless of course you have your partner's complete consent!) However, it's normal to imagine forcible fantasies. If you dream about compelling someone to have sex with you, then it means that you don’t have control in your real life, so you prefer to be controlling in your fantasies. Or if you like to fantasize about unclenching control, then it means you are strong in real life, and you live to give it up in your fantasies.
Would you ever think about situation when your lover tie your hands behind your back and then put you over his or her knee for a good flogging? As a rule such people who fantasize about being tied up often want a “guilt-free” sexual meet. They image that they can't withstand the sex, because they are tied up. Those who dream about being slapped might be into S/M in their real life. Or maybe they just like the way it feels in their fantasies. These fantasies make them feel as if they are evil and need to be punished, thus they think that to be bad is good.
7. Sex While Someone Is Watching.
You unfasten your shirt leisurely and unself-consciously, but you feel certain trepidation, because you know that you are really bragging off. You touch your nipple, slip your hand down your body, your excitement is growing and you start to masturbate. For some people, being an exhibitationist can be very exciting, at least in fantasy. Of course you can feign hat you are a sexual executor, showing off for the spectator and turning the spectator on, too. Hence you could dream that you are having sex with a foreigner and your friend is watching, or that you are having sex with your partner and your boss is watching. Actually, it might seem for you very incorrectly to watch, but it could work great for a fantasy!
8. Sex in Public
Can you fancy that you are having sex from behind, bent over the bar at your favorite club, or having sex sitting in soft stall by crowded cinema, or doing it on crowded beach? Really, sex in crowded places is risky in real life. But in fantasy you have a total freedom and you may not worry about being arrested for indecent exposure. Whatever thoughts turn you on, you can go for. No one can arrest you in public if it's only in your mind.
9. Sex in an Exotic Location
Some people can have sex against a background of the Grand Canyon and give a blow job to their lover, while others just dream about it. You may never be able to go down on a woman who's laying on top of your desk at work, or give a hand job on the top of the sky-scraper, or do it with a driver in the back of his truck, but those are easy fantasies to appear in our mind. Your fantasies of sex in exotic locations can take you places you've never been. Or they can carry you back to places you've already been or want to visit. If you've had sex in your garden, anytime you want you can dream about gallivanting in the violets, without ever having to go outside. If you decide to make love on the beach during your holiday to Miami , you can dream about that even before the plane has touched down. Maybe there's someplace where you'd never worry to have sex, like cavern. Your imagination can put you there, and you won't even have to wait in line for the first seat! Wherever your mind takes you, it is perfectly safe and acceptably to put yourself in exotic areas in your fantasies.
10. Sex with a Former Lover
In case you had the most gripping sex of your life with your ex, why not let him or her get into your fantasies? There are some people who hate to dream about an ex, because after their orgasm, they disappointed about the break-up, or grossed out by the fact that the ex was around, even in a fantasy. But for others, sex-with-the-ex-fantasies are easy to call on anytime. That is the sex which you can remember, and you know what it felt like. You are just calling on your past to get off in the present. Whatever you dream about, you should just take pleasure in the thoughts and images that excite you. Whether it is a totally exclusive fantasy, or whether it is one of the “top 10,” all that matters is that it works for you.
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Sexual Fantasies
